为什么能成功,如何对待失败

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阿诺·施瓦辛格(Arnold Schwarzenegger),世界著名的健身运动员,好莱坞影星,也是两届高票连任的加利福尼亚州州长。在2018年年末的这次演讲中,他分享了自己经历了什么,为什么能成功,如何对待失败。



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I went to college, I went and worked out five hours a day. And I was working on construction, because in those days in body-building, there was no money. I didn't have the money for food supplements or anything. So I had to go to work. So I worked in construction, I went to college and worked out in the gym. And at night from 8 o'clock at night to 12 midnight. I went to acting class four times a week. I did all that. There was not one single minute that I wasted. And this is why I standing here today.

在大学里,我每天训练五个小时。同时还在工地里干活,因为那时候做健美的根本没有钱。我没有钱去买食物或其它别的东西,我不得不去工作。我在工地里干活,去大学的健身房健身,从晚上八点一直到午夜十二点,每周还去上四次表演课。我做了所有的这些事情,没有浪费任何一分钟,这就是我今天能够站在这里的原因。


You see, if you don't have a vision of where you go, and if you don't have a goal where you go, you drift around and you never end up anywhere.

如果你对于自己要去向哪没有任何想法,不知道自己的目标是什么,你将四处漂泊没有终日。


74% of people hate their job in America. The majority of people don't like what they're doing, because they're not doing it, because they didn't have a goal and then followed this goal. They're just aimlessly drift around and there's a job opening, so they get their job because they need to work. But then when you work, it's a chore. It's work. It's not fun. So if you think about it, only a quarter of people really enjoy what they're doing in life.

74%的美国人讨厌他们的工作,大多数人并不喜欢他们正在做的事。因为他们根本不是真正地在“做”,因为他们没有目标也没有努力朝着它奋斗,他们只是毫无目的地漂泊。遇到一份现成的工作时,他们就拿到了一份工作仅仅是出于需要。但真的开始做时却发现它只是乏味琐事,只是工作,毫无趣味。所以你想想看,只有四分之一的人真正在生活中享受他们的工作啊。


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I hate Plan B, because we have so many doubters. We have so many of those people that say “no” and “you can't do it” “it's impossible”. But when you start doubting yourself, that's very dangerous, Because now what you're basically saying is that if my plan doesn't work, I have a fallback plan, I have a plan B. And that means you’re start thinking about Plan B. Every thought that you put into Plan B, you're taking away that thought and that energy from plan A.

我讨厌备选计划,因为我们身边有太多持怀疑态度的人,我们身边有太多的人会说“不”“你做不了的”“绝对不可能”的人。但如果你自己也怀疑自己时,那真的很危险。因为这基本上就等于在说如果我的计划没有成功,我还有一条退路,我还有一个备选计划。这就意味着你已经开始想备选计划。每当你开始想备选计划,你就已经消耗了可以放在最优计划里的想法和能量。


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And it's very important to understand that we function better if there is no safety net. I'm telling you I've never ever had a plan B. ... To me, it is very dangerous to have a plan B, because you're cutting yourself off from the chance of really succeeding.

重要的是,你必须明白没有安全网时我们反而会表现得更好。我告诉你们我从来没有过备选计划。对我来说有备选计划是很危险的,因为它将会阻断你获得真正成功的机会。


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And the reason one of the main reasons why people want to have a plan B is because they are worried about failing. What if I fail then I don't have anything else? well, let me tell you something. Don't be afraid of failing, because there's nothing wrong with failing, You have to fail in order to climb that ladder. There's no one that doesn't fail.

人们想要备选计划的主要原因之一在于因为他们害怕失败。万一我失败了一无所有怎么办?那么,让我告诉你,不要害怕失败,因为失败没有错。你必须失败才能开始攀登成功的阶梯,没有人不失败。


Michael Jordan said in one of his interviews when they said “you're unbelievable”“you the greatest basketball player of all times, and he says “well, you just mentioned the successes”,but he says “For me, to become the greatest basketball player, I missed 9,000 shots when I was playing basketball the NBA games.” So, during this games that he was so successful, he missed 9000 shots. Does it make him a failure? No. He is one of the greatest basketball player of all times, but he failed 9,000 times! Do you get it? We all fail! It's okay.

迈克尔乔丹在一次采访中,听到自己被誉为“不可思议的”“有史以来最伟大的篮球运动员”时他说:“你只提到了成功”。他接着说“对我来说,成为最伟大的球员之前我在NBA球场上投丢了9000次。”所以,在这些属于他的如此成功的球赛里,他投丢了9000次。这让他失败了吗?不。他是有史以来最伟大的球员之一,但他失败了9000次。你明白了吗?我们都会失败!没关系。


What is another case is when you fail you stay down, whoever stays down is a loser. Winners will fail and get up, fail and get up, fail and get up. You always get up, that is a winner.

另一种情况是当你失败沉沦的时候,如果一直沉沦下去,你就是一个失败者。成功的人会失败但也会重新站起来,失败再站起来,失败再站起来。你一定会站起来,这才是成功的人。


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So, relax. It's okay to fail. let's just go all out and give it everything that you got!. That's what it is all about, So, don't be afraid to fail!

所以,放松去做吧。失败也没关系,让我们全力以赴,拼尽全力。这就是成功的真谛。不要害怕失败!


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